My politically correct greetings to you

December 15th, 2008

I wanted to send some sort of holiday greeting to my friends and colleagues, but it is so difficult in today’s world to know exactly what to say without offending someone. So I met with my lawyer yesterday, and on his advice I wish to say the following:

Please accept with no obligation, implied or implicit, my best wishes for an environmentally conscious, socially responsible, low stress, non-addictive, gender neutral celebration of the winter solstice holiday, practiced with the most enjoyable traditions of religious persuasion or secular practices of your choice with respect for the religious/secular persuasions and/or traditions of others, or their choice not to practice religious or secular traditions at all.

I also wish you a fiscally successful, personally fulfilling and medically uncomplicated recognition of the onset of the generally accepted Gregorian calendar year 2009, but not without due respect for the calendars of choice of other cultures whose contributions to society have helped make our country great and without regard to the race, creed, colour, age, physical ability, religious faith or sexual preference of the wishee.

By accepting this greeting, you are accepting these terms: This greeting is subject to clarification or withdrawal. It is freely transferable with no alteration to the original greeting. It implies no promise by the wisher to actually implement any of the wishes for her/himself or others and is void where prohibited by law, and is revocable at the sole discretion of the wisher. This wish is warranted to perform as expected within the usual application of good tidings for a period of one year or until the issuance of a subsequent holiday greeting, whichever comes first, and warranty is limited to replacement of this wish or issuance of a new wish at the sole discretion of the wisher.

No trees were harmed in the sending of this message.

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What about going out to dinner?

December 14th, 2008

Tonight is one of those nights that can derail the best laid plans of anyone working at losing weight…that’s right I HAVE to go to dinner.  No way around it, we are heading out for a holiday party dinner.  Complete with totally fattening foods and lots of them at that.

I’ll bet that you are faced with this scenario as well, so I thought I’d tell you how I will handle things tonight and how I have handled them before.

To start with, lighten up a little.  It’s really ok to step off the path…once in a while.  Every once in a while you HAVE to give yourself a little slack.  So, go out and eat the party food, just don’t make it a habit, and really don’t do again for a week or so.

Here is how to survive.  Eat the salads, avoid the breads.  If you are at a restaurant, avoid the entree and order two salads.  One for when everyone else is eating their starter and the other to be served when everyone gets their entree.  If it matters, you can just tell people that you are on a salad kick lately!  If you can’t do that, ask the waiter to divide the portion into two portions and put the other in a to go box before they serve you.  Take the box home or conveniently “forget” to take it with you when you leave.

If you are at a private home, go for the salads and vegggies and load up with them if possible.  If you can’t do that, take tiny portions and stick to your guns.  You’ve done the polite thing by taking a bit of everything, you don’t have to load up your plate.

Eat slowly and watch for signs that you are getting full…stop eating evry few minutes or so and put your fork down and drink some water (pass on the wine…empty calories there).  Resume eating slowly being sure to stop frequently to see if you are full.  When you are full push your plate away and ask the waiter to remove it…even if it still has food on it.  If you are at a private home, just stop eating.

Be sure to drink plenty of water as it will help you feel full, and if you must have dessert, see if you can share one with someone.  Or, go for the fresh fruit if given that choice.

Finally, enjoy yourself!  It is the holiday season after all, and don’t let one bad meal ruin yourplan.

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Want to go to lunch?

December 7th, 2008

Deadly words for me to hear.  Of course I want to go to lunch.  And dinner, and our for coffee, and snacks and whatever!

One of the ways that I have been able to lose weight is to control what I eat and how much I eat at a sitting.  The way that I found that works best for me is to eat something that has a known amount of calories…because I simply am too lazy to pre-measure and pre-weigh every thing that I eat.  It is far easier for me to buy a pre-packaged salad that has the USDA Food label on it.  These labels give you the ingredients, the nutritional values of the ingredients and most important for me, the calorie count.

If I am going to be truthful here, I also have to say that although I could prepare my own salads in advance, there is no way that I would be strict on portion size.  The pre packaged salads take away the opportunity for a little dishonesty.

So, where do I get my lunch time staples?  Trader Joe’s rides to the rescue for me.  Luckily I live in an area that has 4 to choose from, so I am never really too far from one and I could just pop into one to pick a salad for lunch…but I don’t do it that way because Trader Joe’s is also a dangerous place to go into…they have far too many interesting items to eat.  I don’t dare go in unless I have already eaten and I have my shopping list in hand.

They have salads that should satisfy almost any palate and they have them from 120 calories up to about 600.  They have them with meat and without, with lot’s of extras like eggs, fruit and veggies, and they have plain spinach salads too.

If you do go there to buy them try buying 3 days worth at a time (minimizing trips and temptations) but be sure to watch the expiration dates.  Sometimes you have to dig to find ones that don’t expire for a few days.

Oddly enough, you can also find good salads at some of the fast food joints.  Just don’t fall victim to the lure of french fries and other high calorie low food value items.

Part of my morning ritual is to pack my lunch cooler with a salad, napkin and fork.  I have learned to enjoy just eating salads for lunch and because of that fact and the fact that I have my lunch with me I am able to withstand the pressure to accept one of those lunch invitations.

But, what if you HAVE to go to lunch?  Stick with your plan.  Have a salad!  Ask about portion size when you talk with the server at the restaurant.  There is nothing wrong in asking for a smaller portion if they serve mondo size plates.  You could also ask them to bring a to go box with your order (not after) so that you can divide the portion in two as soon as it arrives and save the extra for tomorrow.  An be sure to get the dressing on the side.  Dip your fork ever so slightly in the dressing before spearing some of the salad and you will save a ton of calories.

And by the way, skip the bread.  If you are like me you’ll eat all the bread in the basket before your entree arrives and you’ll effectively double your caloric intake.

I hope that you have started on your weight loss plan.  I really do.

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Beating Hunger Pangs Before They Beat You!

November 30th, 2008

Well, here in the US Thanksgiving has come and gone and I’ll bet there are more than a few people who are still regretting how much they ate last Thursday.  One of the things that I am thankful for is that I am not one of them!

I was asked in an email (please don’t do that…post a comment instead so that everyone can have the benefit of the answer!) how to beat hunger.  I think that’s a great question.  I have several different methods that I use and I’ll tell you about them.  As always, YMMV (Your mileage may vary).

Probably the most important one for me was the mantra "Don’t let yourself get too hungry".  Here’s what happens when I try to lose weight by starving myself and trying to ignore the hunger pangs for too long:  I give in and then I pig out.  I end up eating eating far more than I would have eaten if I had just eaten sensibly when I was hungry. 

Part of my success was learning to be aware of the signals being sent from my stomach to my brain.  I learned that if I ate slowly and paused several times while eating a meal that my stomach’s message to the brain that it was full actually got through to the brain!  This resulted in me eating less than I normally would have eaten.  My old habit was to eat everything on my plate without thinking about whether I was getting full or not.  Sometimes I would finish a plate so quickly that I thought that I was still hungry and would then have seconds…only to end up with that bloated feeling later. (And a slow, inexorabl weight gain)

The same concept applies to hunger between meals.  It’s real.  I tend to get hungry a few hours after I finish a meal.  Here there is danger though.  The danger is that I would eat a snack like a bagel, or a donut or a candy bar.  None of which is good for me and none of which are low in calories and high in fiber.

What’s up with mentioning high fiber?  As it turns out, foods high in fiber often are low in calories so you can eat a lot of them, feel full and not blow the daily calorie limit.  Here is my list of go to foods that I used (and still do use) for in between meal snacks:

Raw Sugar Snap Peas
Raw Carrots
Pearl Tomatoes
Roasted Unsalted Almonds
Celery
Broccoli
Cauliflower
Apples
Edamame

I can just hear the groaning going on in the background!  It’s all vegetables and nuts!  Yep,  It is.  Part of losing weight is learning to eat differently.  Learning to eat differently means being willing to try new things.  Prior to starting this journey I can assure you that I did not eat any of the foods on this list.  Today, they are all treats and I look forward to eating them.

One additional item that is not a food but has been a huge part of my ability to stay on plan is water.  I drink two quarts of water a day along with 2-4 cups of black coffee.  Water fills me up when I don’t feel like eating a vegetable and want to beat the hunger pangs.  I bought a Brita water filtration pitcher and a plastic water bottle that I fill several times a day.  Two good things come from that.  I’ve got pure filtered water to drink and I am not contributing to the local landfill with my empty bottles!

Next time I want to talk about lunches…unless you have a question about something else.

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Need your help!

November 24th, 2008

Thanks for the emails telling me that you are reading the blog, I do appreciate getting them.  BUT, if you used the commenting feature here on the blog, EVERYONE would get the benefit of your questions and my ANSWERS!

So, would you mind using the comments feature?  I’ve been asked some questions on email that I will be happy to answer via comments…as soon as they get asked via a comment!  :-)

Many thanks,  Jerry

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